By James Pong
One of the most asked questions in today’s world is no other than “How do I find the perfect match?” This has become a very common question as the world evolves, relationships are getting harder to sustain unlike a decade ago.
These days, most couples are like Hollywood celebrities, divorce rates are getting higher than ever before, couple splits more often than earthquakes occur within a year, what’s more these things still happen as often despite the fact the person having a give birth to a child or two – it is very common to see divorced parents with at least one child these days.
Why do divorcing and splitting become so ubiquitous these days? How does one find the common understanding on each other? And most of all, how does one find the perfect match?
Many believe that there’s a special person out there for everyone. Many have found theirs and yet, many are still searching and hoping. Though I would like to believe there’s always someone out there waiting for everyone, I can’t help but think that it is virtually impossible to find the exact right person from the billions of people around us. Therefore, I’m not searching. I believe the right person will appear when the time is right.
How does one find the perfect match? Moreover, if one has found one, how does one really knows if the person is the perfect match? Let’s go through this scenario: – Jon has found Mary and thinks Mary is the perfect match in every aspect. Jon thinks Mary is the one. Mary has many flaws that others might not be able to accept but because Jon sees more good points in Mary, they override the flaws she has. And they got engaged. But one day, Jon met Penny and he falls in love with Penny instantly. Penny is almost like Mary, except she doesn’t have the flaws Mary has. In this scenario, what should Jon do? Is Mary the perfect match? Or could it be Penny? It is impossible to choose when this scenario arises. The only way to solve this is through true conscience. But, is it? True love might break some hearts but if that’s the only way, then conscience would have to make way.
The above scenario is just an example of many other possible scenarios. In most of these cases, the decision that’s made is down right important since the person we choose will be the person that we will spend the rest of our lives with. Despite that, the special someone might not actually be our soul mates. Some people are meant to be married and some are destined to be single. While some of those married couples might find their soul mates in their spouses, those who are single will find their soul mates in the people around them – cousins, neighbors, best friends. And for some, even cats and dogs too. The special someone or something we are looking for might just be right in front of our eyes. Very much like the Westlife’s song Flying Without Wings, we are searching for the special someone (or something) that can complete us and we might find it in the strangest places we never know.
The truth is we just have to keep on searching until we found our perfect match – the special someone that can make us “fly without wings”.
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